Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Summer/Reflection of the year

So the end of year is tomorrow.  I have a few days of packing up my room and so forth to do, but it's pretty much complete.  I know what grade I am teaching next year and what subjects.  However, I feel heavy hearted.  I know that I have a job, and I love the students I teach.  But I hate always feeling like I'm not good enough.  I wish my self esteem were better, and that I were more confident.  I don't know how, after 35 years, to change this self doubt that I always have.  I am going to spend my summer trying to learn how to teach better and how to "play the game".  I hate that part of teaching.  I wish I could just come in and teach my kids and do what I know how to do.  But it doesn't seem to matter to others.  They want me to play the game and do what they want and how they want it.  I guess I will try.  I may succeed at it, and I may not.  I guess time will tell.  But I have a couple months to figure it all out I guess.

My oldest daughter is officially a high school student, which is scary and makes me sad knowing how quickly she has grown up.  My middle is officially a first grader, which is an accomplishment that many may not understand.  Her teacher this year has helped her in so many ways.  I realized fully today during her graduation when she was starting a meltdown.  Her graduation cap was coming off and she couldn't keep it on.  She about lost it and her teacher got her attention and gave her a signal and she just calmed right now.  That was amazing for me to witness and I was so thrilled to see that.  I pray that next year she is able to have a teacher she responds to like she did her teacher this year.


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