Therapy

So Chris and I are in couple's therapy and things are starting to really come out. Last week we got a lot out and at the end the therapist gave Chris "homework". He said to do one thing for me this week that was not asked for. Friday, I had testing for a job that I am trying to get. I was on my way out to the car and when I got to the van, I went to put my drink in the cup holder. Where the cup holders normally are, there were flowers that Chris had gotten me. They were so wonderful! Then on Saturday, I was feeling low, and Chris texted me from work saying to look on my pillow. There was a letter he had written me and it was wonderful. He is really trying.

In all of this, we figured out what my role in his infidelity was. So we are working through all of that and the other things. We are really trying to get past this and build a stronger marriage. What started out as us tryign to work things out for the kids, has made us realize that with God and working through all of our emotions, we can potentially have a real marriage. So we are trying. Not sure if it will end the way we want it, or if we will stay together, but we are trying. And right now that is what is important.